結婚応援日記2008年09月18日
●見かけの重視
ある人の言葉です。
人は見かけで判断するものだ。
だから「 人を見かけで判断してはいけない 」という訓戒があると考えるべきだ。
どう思いますか？ 私は当っていると思います。
目の前のまやかしものに気持ちを揺すぶらされていけませんが、やはり
センスある洗練された装いをされている人を見れば、その人を自分なりにイメージして
判断してしまいます。
「見かけで騙される人のほうが きちんと見抜ける人より ずっと多いと」いうこの一説のように
現実的には、やはり見かけで判断されてしまうのです。
なら、センスを磨き 洗練された 服装 や装飾品を身に付け 謙虚で楚々とした立ち振る舞いに
気をつけるという助言のように やらないよりはやったほうが良いと思います。
ここまではっきりしたアドバイスをすことは難しいですが、やはり結果がなかななか出ないと
心中穏やかでなく、辛口コメントも時としては言います。
あるかたですが、写真が良くてお見合いになったとしても、地の自分と違ったら
会ったとたんに断られると頑として耳を傾けないかたがいらっしゃいました。
地味な色合いがお好きで 「華やかなものは受け付けない。ピンクなんてめっそうもない！」
何もピンク色を着なさいとまでは言ってないのですが、男性が好む傾向はあります。
まずは 明るさ 元気のよさ （+色っぽさがあればベスト）。
それには顔の色を引き立てることが大切です。
そのためには メイク 髪型 服の色合いの工夫が必要になってきます。
華やかでもケバイものはNGですが、第一印象で事が動くなら やっぱり やらないより
やったほうが良いです。 写真一つで こんなに結果が違うと実感した彼女は
職場での服装も少しだけ感じを変えたら、特に上司からの評判が良くなったと言っておられました。
「見かけばかり良くても中味のない人間はダメ」
まさしくそうですが、なかなか中味と言いましても。。。。
まず外見に気を配り 信用というものを得てから
中味を出していけばいいでしょう。 「人は外見で判断する」ということなら
この信用がなければ 、どんな良いことを言っても 行動しても 説得力がないのです。
悲しいかな．．． それがどうやら現実のようです。
できる範囲でいいので、自分への投資をしてくださいね。
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